I think that guys should be informed that we women but especially me have a nasty habit of saying one thing and meaning a complete other. For example I told Jeremy not to email me awhile ago. I know that sounds so strange but I got to the point that if I didn't get an email from him I'd right away think there was some deep meaning why he didn't. I know this is completly irrational but it is one of my flaws. I explained to him my reasoning in the least psycho way I could. But in actuality for some reason I was thinking that he would still email me. Does anyone else have this habit? Jessica for example knows this habit so when I tell her not to bother right away she knows that I mean to bother. She knows that I don't always come right out and say what I really feel but has learned how to interpret it regardless. Sometimes I don't wonder if we shouldn't all be with a partner of the same sex. At least then we'd have a slightly better chance of understanding each other.