I wish friendships were like dating. If things weren't working out the way you wanted you could simply end it. You could call them up and say "We've changed. We've grown apart. It's not you, It's me." And the funny thing is things haven't changed. That's the problem. She is at the same level as when we started being good friends our junior year. I feel that I am twenty and a completly diffrent person than I was at sixteen.I don't want to be at the same point in my life now that I was four years ago.My relationship with Jess has gotten to the point where I feel like I'm just using her. That is completly not fair. . It's gotten to the point where I dread her calling to do something. I'm sick of listening to how many problems she has with her boyfriend and all those problems are because Jess feels that she is a princess and he should drop everything for her. I'm sick of hearing her disagree with the way Erin parents her son Logan. Erin does a damn good job with Logan. She does the part of two parents and works full time. Jess on the other hand thinks she has all the answers even though she has him for eight hours a week. Her precious sleep isn't disturbed if he isn't tired and she doesn't have to wake up early to get a two year old ready before spending the hour she does to get ready. But things go in one ear and out the other with her. She knows everything!She makes me feel like crap when I'm around her. All the guys are staring at her or oh my gosh these size four pants are so huge on me.

Should I have to be her friend just out of a sense of obligation?