Nice. That is all I want to be. I smile at people. I ask them how they are doing. Innocent simple things to be nice. When did this turn into flirting? I can't even be nice without guys getting the wrong impression lately. There is a regular customer Claude who I always say hi to. Today I was wearing chunky platform maryjanes with my just to the knees skirt and waitress uniform. Claude was teasing me about how I look like I'm about to loose my balance at any moment. I joked about being a big clutz. Then when he was leaving I asked him if he ws going to get some sleep since he was just complaining about lack of it and he says, "Nope, I'm going to go fantasize." What do you say to something like that so I tried to make light of it by saying, "About me falling on my butt?" He gave me a sickening grin and said. "Well, that's part of it." Gag. Then their is our cook Raul. He is always very nice not much for looks but nice. I always ask him how he's doing, which I ask everyone whom I work with. That is about the extent of our relationship. But today he and another cook were asking for my phone number and I was just playing it off because I didn't want to be rude. They informed me they would get it no matter what. Then Raul goes on to tell me how he's going to call me tonight and I must say yes when he calls. I said " I'll think about it." "No," he says."You have to say yes." It wasn't so much in what he said but how he said it. In this demanding tone that creeped me out. When I asked my boss to make sure that she wouldn't give out my number she said that I had to directly say "No." to these guys and that I should ignore them and not talk and be nice because it gives them the wrong idea. Isn't that sad you can't even be nice.