Today I wore a skirt today for work at the restaurant. A simple black knee length skirt with nude nylons, my favorite mary janes and my standard white polo and navy apron. But oh my goodness does it change things. I all of a sudden felt like a different person from the waitress who wears black dress pants.At first I felt incredibly feminine. I can't help but feel that way when I wear the cliched female item of heels. My legs are something that I get complimented on. I inherited my grandma's shapely long legs. I admit it I felt sexy too. But in a good confident way. But as soon as I had men oggling my legs in that very obvious undressing manner I had regretted my decision. I also got the comment that I would get better tips that way. That made me feel nauseous. What am I a prostitute? There is a fine line. I do admit I am flirtier when I am a waitress and I like to look nice and I smile a lot. Am I selling myself? It's kind of disgusting but I think I sort of am. I do get better tips than the older waitress'. Is that fair when they are much more experienced? I'd like to say it was just my personality and my skills as a waitress but if I were 300 pds and 50 years old would things be the same.