"Ambiguities in the love dept could be lacerating to your inner soul..."~my horoscope from Monday

How important is it to be alone? When something dramatic happens is it better to deal with things on your own or rely on the support of someone else? Jessica's boyfriend of a year James just found out some troubling news,that he won't tell anyone what are,but told Jess that he needed a break to deal with it on his own. So Jessica packed all of her stuff from his apartment and cried and cried. He told her that he still loved her and that he could never see himself with anyone else, he just needed space. SPACE. What a scary word that is when it comes to a relationship. But what does Jessica do? She calls him and calls him and calls him and is hurt when he doesn't call back and pissed when he still doesn't call back. She simply doesn't understand that she cannot do this. I've told her that this is a turning point in her relationship. Up until now they've had a pretty smooth uneventful relationship. I told her that if it's meant to be it will be. But that's easy for me to say. I'm not the one that is dealing with it. But it's so frustrating to me. If I hear about James (who I've never been especially fond of) any more I will scratch my eyes out. I know, I am a terrible friend.